Question 1

Should I book accommodations?

Accepted Answer

Please refer to our Accommodations page! Thanks for your patience while we iron out the details.

Question 2

How should I get there?

Accepted Answer

Check out our Travel Page for suggestions, details, and travel tips!

Question 3

What's the Dress Code?

Accepted Answer

All events of the weekend will be semi-formal. We are pushing for a 'formal cocktail attire', 'garden wedding', and 'Italian summer' dress code. You can think fun colors, summery dresses, or coat and tie.

There will be 3 nights of events planned: 
The Welcome Party (attire: semi-formal)
The Wedding (attire: semi-formal)
The Pizza/Pool Party (attire: casual, bathing suits)

If no rain, the ceremony will be outside on a lawn, however the dance party and reception will be held inside.

More information to come!

Question 4

What should I pack?

Accepted Answer

Essentials: 
Passport; make sure it will not expire within 6 months of your return to the US. 
ETIAS Visa Requirement; apply for the visa at least 1 week before your travels.

Electronics:
Portable charger
Wall plug adapter (US-to-EU)

Clothes:
Bathing suit + Swim towel
Comfy walking shoes
Your dancing shoes
A shawl or jacket in case it gets chilly at night. 
Tip: be mindful of dress codes that are sometimes required if you plan to tour religious sites. (like churches)

Question 5

Are the wedding venue and accommodations ADA friendly?

Accepted Answer

We're gathering details and figuring out logistics now. Mamie and her mother will be visiting the venue and hotel in Aug 2026, so more information to come!
 
What we know so far:
The venue is a 13th-century fortified tower, and the property features rustic, traditional layouts, including rooms in the main villa and separate cottages.
If no rain, the ceremony and dinner will be held outside on a grassy lawn. No matter the weather, the dance party will be held inside.
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Please reach out with any questions or concerns!

Question 6

Can I bring my children or a plus one?

Accepted Answer

We feel so lucky to celebrate with our closest friends and family. Because we’re keeping our wedding weekend very small, we’re only able to invite the guests listed on your invitation. We kindly ask that no additional guests or children attend unless named. We love you all, and appreciate your understanding!

Question 7

Can I RSVP early?

Accepted Answer

We’re so glad you received our Save the Date! Formal invitations (with RSVP details) will follow. However, if you already know you definitely will or won’t be able to attend, feel free to let us know ahead of time. It would be a help as we begin planning accommodations and event logistics.

Question 8

What if I don't speak Italian?

Accepted Answer

We don't either! Thanks for being open to the adventure :)

We'll be brushing up on a handful of common etiquette phrases ourselves too, like 'hello', 'goodbye', 'thank you', 'please pass the pasta', and 'more cheese, please' before the big day.